Have you ever thought, I set my goal…now what?
Last week I attended Back to School night for my daughter’s high school. It was all done via zoom because….COVID. It struck me how few parents showed up.
As the teacher presented to parents how the semester is going to play out, my thought was what a great illustration of how to use systems to achieve a goal. I know productivity nerd over here.
Let me explain using Biology (because the teacher was kinda cute).
He started by laying out the “course objectives” (aka goals)
Next, he went into the materials, tests, homework, etc that will be expected throughout the year (his system for achieving the objectives above).
I also loved the part where he pointed out all electronic devices must be OFF or they will be confiscated. This guy knew how to get...
Raise your hand if you’ve ever given up on a New Year’s resolution. If you could peer through my computer monitor, you would see me waving my hand in the air.
We’ve all done it but there’s something magical about a fresh start. A chance to clean the slate. This year instead of picking another New Year’s Resolution that you’re going to beat yourself up for failing in a few weeks. Let’s focus on goals we can work towards in a way that’s healthy and realistic.
Let’s start with why your goals should be more than just a New Year’s tradition. Goals can be more than just a yearly resolve to lose those same 10 pounds. You can set goals in any area of life - business, health, or personal. You know this already of course.
First goals help you choose the right moves at the right times. Let’s use your business as an example here. Say you’ve just launched your social...
It's the time of year when we're all a little behind on our to-do lists. With holiday parties, gift shopping, and decorating, it's hard not to fall into a frenzy! I’m excited to share with you my top tool and tips that will help you get your tasks done without feeling frazzled.
I purchased this printable holiday planner from Etsy 2 years ago. It might seem like a lot, but it is my secret weapon for getting through the holidays. I'll admit, I don't use every single page. I print them out and clip them into my holiday binder. I have a divider page for each holiday Halloween through New Year. I’ve also included a pencil case so when I carry this secret weapon around I’m prepared with post its, pens, and highlighters.
This planner is key for getting my house decorated. I take pictures where I place everything in my house so that when I bust out the big tubs of all my decorations, it's pretty easy for me to figure out where all the stuff...
It’s time for the truth, ladies. We all fail at something. We are not perfect and we never will be. The sooner you realize this, the happier you will be with your life!
I'm going to let you in on a little secret - everyone fails sometimes! Everyone makes mistakes, but it's how we handle those failures that really matters. That's right; even me! So don't worry if you've failed before because I know that it happens to all of us. Remember - just dust yourself off and get back up again!
Let’s dive a bit deeper and look at the reasons you are setting yourself up for failure.
When something goes wrong do you immediately react by pointing fingers?
Next time let’s start by looking at what you could have done differently. I’ll use my kids as a quick example. This morning my daughter ratted out her brother for locking her out of the bathroom when she needed to be getting ready...
I don’t talk politics on this blog because it’s not relevant (and I don’t want to). Today I’m going to dip my toe in for just a moment. There’s currently a sit-in going on at my kids school. It has to do with vaccinations and I have my opinions but again that doesn’t matter here.
This post is about overwhelm and right now I feel like the political environment of our country is overwhelming. I never dealt with school protests as a kid. The weight of this as a mom feels heavy.
Our kids have gone through enough dealing with a global pandemic for the last year and a half. I long for the days where my kids biggest concern was what to wear to school.
Enough about politics. Let’s look at some other signs of overwhelm that have a less divisive source.
As entrepreneurs we are forced to wear many hats. You have to do it all (even that yucky accounting stuff you don’t...
The phone rang and it was a number I didn’t recognize. I went against my instincts and answered it. On the other end was a sweet voice asking me to volunteer for the freshman retreat for my daughter’s high school.
“Yes” fell out of my mouth without thought but as soon as I hung up the phone I knew that I had crossed a boundary. I had too much on my plate and was flooded with regret.
Has this ever happened to you?
Creating boundaries keeps you on the unbusy path. “What is a boundary?” you’re thinking. I like this definition by Brene Brown:
“Boundaries are not fake walls, not separation, they’re not division. They are respect for what’s ok and what’s not ok for me.”
In other words, it is an internal understanding that helps us love ourselves and each other better. Going back to my phone call example above, I knew I...
“I hear you like an angel on my shoulder”
Those words are the best compliment from a client. She hears my voice in her head when she wants to power through another day without taking time for herself.
I’m no angel but I do want to get inside your head to talk about accountability.
There’s that word...ACCOUNTABILITY. It’s thrown around a lot in the realms of personal productivity.
In my opinion, it’s earned its place. Here’s why:
Studies have shown if you publicly state a goal, you have a 65% chance of achievement. If you have someone holding you accountable to that goal, your odds increase to 95%.
Those are some good odds.
Despite the good bet, many people still don’t do it. The reasons include
The list can go on and on but let...
In honor of joining a new book club, I'm digging this post out of the archives from January 2020 and publishing it here.
"I am part of everything that I have read." Theodore Roosevelt
Last year my goal was to read one book a month. I just tallied my results:
Thirty-eight books, I blew my goal out of the water. And the truth is, my list of books I would like to read grows bigger each day. If you throw in all the articles I would like to get to from my favorite writers and bloggers, I could spend all of 2020 cozied up with a book.
Although that sounds amazing, real-life would set in fast. Is there a way to consume all the content that piques my interest and still participate in real life? Let’s dive into speed reading and find out.
There’s a special kind of joy that comes from curling up with a good book. Taking your time to follow along with each word as the author weaves their story. ...
The dark and dusty attic was full of old furniture, holiday decor, and boxes. Over 40 years of memories stored in these rafters. I opened a box to find my childhood journals.
I opened the pink journal on top and read “Another LONG day in the car. Almost 8 hours!”
HA! These were my tales from a two-week journey from Northern California to Yellowstone National Park. My summers were defined by the family road trip. Dad would start each day with his checklist of our must see/do for the day.
Have you ever thought about how much of your vacation style is shaped by the trips you took as a child?
Fast forward to my Tahitian honeymoon a decade later. I awoke on my first day in paradise and hightailed...
Yesterday I lost my shit.
In two weeks we should be in paradise (AKA Hawaii) but we still hadn’t booked our COVID tests. I delegated it to my husband but he didn’t seem to give it the same level of importance it was currently occupying in my brain.
I pulled out my laptop determined to finally check this off my list. In just a few mouse clicks, I realized all the free appointments were gone. Putting this off was now going to cost us.
I was grumpy, irritated and felt rushed. I finally found the best option and got hubby on board to complete the online paperwork.
My temper tantrum was 100% a result of a mismanaged task list. I fell off track with managing my list. This is a reminder for me and hopefully it helps you too.
The first step is to find a system for organizing tasks that works for you. I’m not going to get into that here but I recommend finding one that works for your ...