Last weekend felt normal. We had dinner inside a restaurant with friends and both kids competed in their sports. Seems like coronavirus might be loosening its grip.
One lesson I’m taking away from all the isolation and quarantine of the last year is the power of routine.
Now you're thinking...routine sounds boring. Why should you care?
Even if it’s not a mediation routine, going through a practice over and over again each day will calm your mind. Plus, if you have routines in place to get it all done, your brain can stop worrying.
2. Form good daily habits
If you are trying to work on anything from spending more time with your kids to losing weight. Building a routine around that habit will increase your success.
3. Take better care of your health
What’s the change you want to make for your health? Develop a routine to support that change...
It’s been in my closet since we moved into this house over a year ago. A giant whiteboard with sketches to organize my dreams because some “guru” said I needed it. A tool I wasted too much time on because it worked for somebody else.
GASP! I just took a closer look at those sketches. I date one April 2019!
I love checking off to-do lists and planning the details of my day. I admire those that can easily see the big picture, and if that’s you, I have a giant whiteboard for ya. It’s littering my precious closet space.
Have you ever felt that spending time to organize yourself is an exercise in futility? It’s not you! It’s the tools.
This assessment helps you find your personal productivity style. Go ahead, take it. Who doesn’t love personality tests?
In school, and as parents, we are told to identify and work with learning styles. They labeled some kids visual learners, while others did...
Managing your to-do list should never take more time than checking those boxes.
This is the wasteland of productivity. I have waded through it too.
We all want a system that’s effortless. Something that supports the way our brains work rather than drag down our productivity.
The ideal is to find a system that works with you and then make productivity improvements.
Remember when you tested a hypothesis in junior high school science class? Memories of the egg drop experiment are rushing to me. You designed a vessel to protect an egg when dropped and then tweaked it until it worked.
Let’s use the same approach with your productivity. Test these changes and see what works for you:
Can you believe about 28 percent of the workweek is managing e-mail? That’s over a quarter of your time spent on someone else’s priorities. Some reasons we spend so much time on email...
Gripping tightly to my mom’s shoulders, I hobbled from the car to my daughter’s first-grade classroom. I had just celebrated my 40th birthday, but no doubt I moved like a 90-year-old
I was using my mom as a makeshift walker.
Looking back on it now, I have no clue how I maneuvered my broken body into a tiny wooden first-grade desk. After the Back to School presentation wrapped up, one of the other moms put her arm around me to ask what was wrong.
“I’ve got scoliosis,” I sighed, “and this just happens every once in a while.”
She offered to come to my house and rub magic oil on to relax my spasming muscles. Kinda creepy but desperate for any relief, I agreed.
The oil didn’t save me.
Had I reached a new low in my desperation to stop the back pain?
After I regained the ability to stand upright, my mission was to sit less.
This phrase caught on like...
Getting up before the sun never gets easy. Honestly, most days, I want to roll over and go back to sleep.
Here’s why you need to fight the urge to hit snooze.
Before sunrise is my time to connect with myself. To work on the person I want to be. Reflect on the directions my life has taken and rejoice in those moments or learn from those failures.
I unpack what’s on my mind. First, by silencing it through meditation and then by journaling.
It’s the perfect time to build a habit. Say you want to work on drinking more water, make it the first thing you do each morning. It doesn’t have to happen at 5 am. Just guzzle down as much water as soon as you hop out of bed.
Willpower is stronger in the morning.
Remember the last time you had friends over for dinner and you bought a dessert for the kids? You bought those extra chocolatey...
Last year burnout was classified as an official medical diagnosis. No doubt that 2020 confirmed this decision.
Not surprising, but still alarming.
I’m no doctor, but the logical treatment for burnout is the often overused term self-care.
I’m not talking about an extravagant spa retreat. That’s amazing if you can make it happen. But you need something that can fit into your everyday. A moment to notice the fall leaves on the tree out front. Time to silence all of your devices.
“Nothing can bring you peace but yourself.” Ralph Waldo Emerson
I had stayed out late the night before. Too much tequila made me next-level tired. Somehow, I still held my promise because my daughter means the world to me.
Thinking back on it a few days later, it was priceless bonding time with my girl. We toured the murals of downtown Roseville (my childhood hometown), and I indulged her love of snapping IG pics with interesting backgrounds.
I spend lots of time in my head questioning myself in the moment. I took a second to celebrate my good decision.
Do you ever take time to reflect?
You probably wonder... WHY? When time is a precious commodity, sitting with our thoughts seems to be a waste. Or maybe a luxury you can’t afford.
Let me explain to you why it’s worth it.
Research of call center employees who spent 15 minutes at the end of the day reflecting about lessons learned performed 23% better after 10 days than those who did not reflect. Another study of UK commuters found a similar result. ...
“The Buck Stops Here” was a wooden desk sign that sat on Harry Truman’s desk. He would refer to it in speeches. A visual cue that he made the final decision and held himself accountable.
Now when I walk the aisles of HomeGoods, the desk signs read, Boss Babe, Goal Digger, or Lady BOSS.
Not the same level of accountability.
I love your feminine spirit, Lady BOSS, but one thing you can’t delegate is accountability.
Simply stated, accountability means doing what you say you will do. You can ask someone else to write the content for your next product launch, but when you are the Boss Babe, you still own the responsibility for getting it done.
Accountability is hard to find when you work from home either by choice or circumstance (thanks Corona).
It’s still worth seeking if there’s a project you want to get done. Being accountable to someone stokes the fire of motivation because your actions are being...
Last night I laid in bed pretending to sleep for hours. I knew I wouldn’t sleep and probably should have taken a sleeping pill. Those pills I save for special occasions like last night when I know my mind won’t shut down.
Today is our school district’s deadline to decide if we want to enroll our kids in virtual academy for the first trimester. (Since I wrote this just last week, this option has disappeared. Every day the only constant seems to be change.)
Unclear seems to be the theme of Back to School 2020. Let’s cut through this fog together. Most of us have been through some version of remote learning last Spring.
I challenge you to stay productive. Starting next Monday, August 3rd I will post daily back to school productivity tips. Join me and share how you are working around the obstacles and still soldering forward to make progress on your dreams.
Guess what?! We’ve got enough anxiety in our lives so...
How often have you wished for more time? Time to watch the waves crash on the beach with your family, time to finish the project before the deadline, or time to work on your passions.
There was a calendar proposed in the early 1900s that gave us 13 months. No joke! The Kodak Company used it until the late 80s.
I can’t wave the magic wand and create time, but I can share the wonder of moving to a digital calendar. Right now you’re about to click away because you’re already using that calendar on your phone. But are you getting the most out of it?
Color-coded categories allow you to assign different calendars to the unique roles you play in life. Purple for mom, green for self, and yellow for business. Plus, it adds some pops of color.
Every other Thursday at 4 pm, my son has to get allergy shots. I only had to put this into my calendar one time and tick the little...